A Life of True Wealth

In my many years as a bodyworker, I have met many financially wealthy individuals, and I have witnessed them struggle to embody what I would call true happiness and true wealth. The kind of wealth that is not reliant on the amount in bank accounts or number of assets. What is often lacking is the kind of peace that allows one to sleep well at night, knowing they are truly loved—not for their money, accomplishments, or looks, but for the truth of who they are: their essence, their core—good, bad, or ugly.

The wealth I speak of is the ability to accept ourselves wholeheartedly and know ourselves deeply. This takes introspection, spaciousness to reflect, and a commitment to love what we find—unconditionally. We all have parts of ourselves we struggle to love, yet the irony is that the more we love the parts that are hardest to love, the bigger our hearts grow—and the more love we get to experience, not only for ourselves but for others. Being rich with this kind of love, I would argue, is the greatest wealth we can acquire in this life.

As I age, I’ve come to deeply value physical, mental, and emotional health. My clients often list a variety of pharmaceutical drugs—antidepressants, anti-anxiety, and blood pressure medications. Toxicity from our environments, food, and lifestyle adds up and can lead to a painful form of aging that many accept as inevitable—but it need not be so. Alzheimer’s, chronic disease, lack of mobility—to name a few.

Relationships are central to both health and wealth.

Marriages struggle to maintain joy and intimate connection, withholding vulnerable inner worlds from the person closest to them. Friendships can feel superficial, lacking authenticity—caught in the game of “keeping up with the Joneses.” Many spend time doing things because it’s expected, rather than consciously choosing what their heart longs for.

Throughout my life, I have prioritized building relationships—first and foremost with my own mind, body, and heart. I have also built a web of friendships and community around the world that I know would support me if I ever needed it. People I can be fully myself with—no pretense, no pretending. Relationships built on trust, intimacy, depth, and honesty. I’ve also cultivated relationships with my spirit guides, allies, and ancestors. The wealth I’ve received from these relationships is invaluable, powerful, and continues to grow exponentially in its impact on my life’s purpose.

My relationship with the Earth has delivered a depth of grounding, stability, security, and abundance that no bank account could rival. Having time for the people and practices that give my life meaning is a wealth in itself. Life is happening now. This is no dress rehearsal.

What have you been investing in?

Are there dreams that have been faintly whispering to you since childhood? Creative pursuits that have felt just out of reach? Is there a legacy longing to be developed—something that feels deeply true to your heart’s knowing, even if it doesn’t make logical sense?

Many people spend much of their lives trying to live up to societal expectations and conditioning—still subconsciously trying to please their parents. We are hard-wired for survival and belonging. Yet, when we come to rest in the truth of who we are at our core, we can relax into the safety of simply being. A fear of death often lies at the center of so many decisions. And when we can face that fear, we are liberated to live more fully and authentically.

Meeting our fears, our unmet traumas, and the roots of our programming frees up tremendous energy—energy we can reclaim for our health on all levels. This is at the core of the work I do with my clients: questioning, listening, and looking deeply into the subconscious storylines that quietly direct our lives. This work is essential for renewal.

Many won’t have the courage to explore these realms, and that’s perfectly okay. This inquiry is not for the faint of heart—it arises when the soul is ready. It’s a hero’s or heroine’s journey. If you feel the call of readiness, I encourage you to reach out and book a consult.